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2014年9月15日 (月)

slow down your pace

Busy life finally ended, lying in the speeding train, close your eyes, wearing a Headset, slowly to enjoy the pleasure of the journey. In five years, have adapted to dozens of hours of hard seat, listening to the car noise, used to enjoy the scenery outside the window, frequent train life seems to have not let me feel tired, but feel that this is a different kind of life experience. At the moment, unusually quiet car makes me a little not accustomed to, the original sleeper and hard seat is indeed different, sleeper can really bring the human body comfort, but it is less free communication between people that night, to me now, I more like the kind of atmosphere hard seat carriage, perhaps this is the so-called "bad stomach could not enter the oil and water"!
With the train ahead of the pace, quietly lying in bed, listening to the sound of snoring in the carriage, so comfortable life is really long. I always want to live this life: just smell the flowers, not to talk about feelings, tea books, do not contend for overnight, the sun warm a little, and then a warm day, slower, more slowly. However, I understand that, in the high speed development of the information age, people increasingly rapid pace of life, the life I want is only a kind of hope. Modern people have a lot of strange disease, "information panic" is one of them, in this age of information explosion, people are afraid to miss what kinds of information in a messy, quiet look at a book, immersed in them, the happiness with the sad, understands the appreciation and understanding of her loss, humanistic spirit seemed to are not likely to.
Problem of age out to our generation really many: pressing the pressure of competition, let youth lock studying in the campus, let the education resources into fighting competition prize, to a large number of undergraduate students, graduate students become unemployed graduation moment, let each one once dream youth become incomplete sluggish old boy... Times such as the tide, hold us, pushing us away, we wouldn't go backward, a moment can not relax, or will be left behind the times, so everyone to fall over each other to run forward, but in fact we don't know what should run to where go to, just be sure to follow the stream. By the time we wound like kidnapping children toy clockwork, dazed and confused but energetic.
Sometimes really feel, more and more high quality of life of modern people, and becoming the spiritual world more empty, how many people have done their thinking on the value and meaning of life? How many people have had the sentiment of his life experience and life experience? When we realise what time and the slave of money, the heart feel miserable and sad? I have always felt that the ideal state of life should be like this: the struggle in the big city, small city in the life, work hard and don't strive to gaunt, blindness, to know not overdo sth., status, money and desire is never - ending, but life is to be in proper when timely systemic heart to feel, because life only once, and lasts for a few decades, so don't waste it, work hard and enjoy life should be two ways.
It is time to stop, to find that the good in life bit by bit, slowly to enjoy life, enjoy family, love, friendship beautiful warm air, clouds, flowers, enjoy the natural beauty. Most of the time, we do not feel happy, not because of loneliness, but incapable of action too much, too much to give up, when the time of sandglass choke my throat, I began to change, start figured something, put down some persistent, get rid of some of the anguish. In fact, life on the road have no what sail with the wind, there will always be a strong wind and big waves, spent will be in smooth water! Perhaps this is a mature, maturity is a come unexpectedly moment, put your pride ruthlessly trample on the ground, let it into a flower or rotten mud. I always thought that, a person the most powerful weapon, not outside approval, but the self recognition.
The sky sunset was too much of a hurry, Yu Xia has not yet light smile, let people repeatedly injured, life is always so, hurt others inadvertently, and inadvertently hurt by others, "butterfly for the flower, flower flies with the wind" is perhaps the best interpretation about the pain! Time is too ruthless, we will never forget those people and things, have become each other's passer, however, cannot wield is memory, stay is China, lift is lost, do not put the emotion, can't afford to lose dignity. I believe, everyone has a city, the city will have a person, this is about you in the city's original intention, wherever you go, always as a city and think of a person, think of all the memories of the past, time is not only let you see through others, more let you understand yourself.
Society is like fish ponds, although Nishajuxia, but must really be a pond of clear water, also a little scary, or a riot of colours, sour, sweet, bitter, hot each point only the taste. Life in the world, it will face all sorts of things, in the face of the people of every hue, with things and people will produce the passions of the emotion, which is the normal state of life. Since years, will inevitably Yanliang vicissitude, since it is the life, can not help to love and hate, since is the life, will inevitably sour, sweet, bitter, hot. The length of your life, however long seasons, life span, more but the North South thing, the impermanence of life, but also is grief at separation and joy in union. As individuals in social crowd we, can realize these, also can look through a lot of things, also can do "not to material happiness, not to their own grief".
Of course, we say that the slow down, learn to enjoy life, not let you no longer struggle, but let you can have a good life in the struggle. When you read a book to see headache, when the eyes were red, when you have turned over the mail list does not know to who, when you walk through the crowd watching the lamps and candles of a myriad families but can not find a sense of belonging of the time, you should listen to a song, read a book, think about the initial adherence and stand in this place the reason, and then raised his head go bravely. Often say "scholarship to endure loneliness, a person must withstand wind and rain," life is not easy, so the effort is still necessary. Only in the way, please make my steps slow down a bit, and so on their own souls, as to leave some placed the memory of things, when we looking back road, also seems clear footprints, and sure, we didn't lose our souls, not weight loss.

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